The best bits about getting older

I don’t really understand why people feel the need to hide or lie about their age. It could be argued that at the ripe old age of 22 it’s something I couldn’t possibly understand, but I like to think that when I’m 85 and cleverly matching my lipstick to my walking frame, I’ll be proud as punch to say so. Ageing isn’t something to be ashamed of. Out of all the kind-hearted, wise, beautiful and talented women I know, majority of them are over fifty. But what I admire the most about each of them is how they embrace their age and don’t let the fear of getting older get them down. Here are just five of the qualities I hope to steal from them as I enter my forties, fifties, sixties and beyond.

AGEING QUALITY #1 Using kick-ass skincare

So many pretty lotions and potions are targeted at older age groups and I can’t wait to try them all! I love a lady who lathers her face in the latest anti-ageing discovery and isn’t ashamed to recommend it to her friends or admit what she’s been using when complimented on her skin. If you’re still yet to jump on the anti-ageing skincare bandwagon, I’m telling you now I’ll be running out to try Avon Anew Clinical Line Corrector and Dr. LeWinn’s Private Formula Advanced Night Cream as soon as my first wrinkle appears.

AGEING QUALITY #2 Staying active

The amount of times I have been overtaken on the running track by a lady twice my age is easily in the hundreds (and no, it’s not because I’m extremely slow!). Fitness is a big part of ageing gracefully and it can help reduce the risk of heart disease, stroke, diabetes and dementia. So for the sake of my mental health as well as my physical condition, I hope to remain active as I age.

New exercises to try: Xtend barre and F45 training.

AGEING QUALITY #3 Regular salon visits

I currently let my hair go way too long without a regular cut and colour. It’s not that I don’t like going to the hairdresser, I just forget or feel like I’m too busy to make the time. I admire women who have a regular appointment every six weeks that they never miss. Keeping your hair in tip-top condition can make take years off your appearance, not to mention hide any greys that may sneakily creep up on the hairline.

Want to change up your look? Try a flirty fringe.

AGEING QUALITY #4 Earlier bed time

We all know how important sleep is, and as you get older it seems to be more acceptable to have an earlier bedtime (hurray!). Women I admire aren’t ashamed to say they’re heading home for a book, bath and bed instead of staying out partying all night. And getting plenty of rest will help keep those under eye bags at bay too.

AGEING QUALITY #5 Effortless elegance

While every older woman I know oozes sophistication and class I’m about as elegant as Miley Cyrus on a wrecking ball. My life goal is to be able to eat and drink without smearing my lipstick – something only a woman with years of practice and tonnes of life experience can achieve.

What are some of the qualities you admire in older women?

60 Member Comments

RAWRSKIES 3 Jun 2014 3:06 AM

Let's hope we're all full of wisdom and fabulous on the inside and out when we're in our 50's!

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Arty Girl 3 Jun 2014 2:05 AM

I do like it when older women still care about their appearance by having their makeup, hair and outfit coordinated beautifully. I admire that the fact that they are getting older does not deter them from caring about how they present themselves.

Jas420 2 Jun 2014 11:44 AM

I have met older women in their 50s who will say,"I can't do this as well because I am so much older than you". And then met women in the same age group who are fit, strong and confident and who don't use their age in a negative way.

Beckky 2 Jun 2014 10:48 AM

great tips

Claire88 2 Jun 2014 9:49 AM

I admire the confidence that comes with wisdom and age..... I think that's what's makes a woman attractive, aging gracefully. I think by trial and error, we have accumulated the knowledge to dress to suit our body shape and that we can look great at any age.

Ausblonde 2 Jun 2014 5:09 AM

I started looking after my skin when I was 14, and I remember thinking am I wasting my money. But my skin is in great condition - I have one very small wrinkle and am in my fifties. It appears it was worth it!!!

ModernSnowWhite 1 Jun 2014 6:21 AM

Having class and elegance, and acting your age is what I admire.

apple8 31 May 2014 12:46 PM

I admire the confidence of older women.

Rose_P 30 May 2014 1:48 AM

Age is just a number....

Jenniqua 28 May 2014 11:36 PM

These are amazing tips and I agree we should try to age gracefully and that can take a bit of effort on our part by keeping our mind body and spirit balanced.

Linda_Vesinger 28 May 2014 3:10 PM

I admire the wisdom that comes with getting older - I turned the big 50 last year & find it's true that the older you get, the wiser you get. Love the idea of an early night with a book, I should do it more often!

Jacquelinee 28 May 2014 2:00 PM

Staying active is so important, I am excited for all the wisdom I'll gain once I'm old but when I'm losing teeth, mobility and skin elasticity...I get reminded I'm still young and I should embrace it :D

ray_jay 28 May 2014 2:19 AM

your 20s are for enjoying yourself! enjoy it sam and i agree who cares how old you look

Pink Hornet 27 May 2014 1:54 PM

Would love to try Xtend Barre. I think the secret at any age is to love yourself. Know what works for you and do it. Value yourself.

misfortune8 27 May 2014 10:36 AM

'When I am an old woman, I shall wear purple...' by Jenny Joseph. Look it up.

clearcrystalwater 27 May 2014 9:14 AM

I'm finding that if people know my real age, they take me seriously! I admire that about ageing!

kiri 27 May 2014 5:11 AM

Over 60 and don't feel that I have to meet society's expectations at all. Ah for the freedom of being older!

Anitas Artistry 27 May 2014 4:04 AM

Here's hoping we can all be this fantastic in our 50's

MissChriss 26 May 2014 1:04 PM

Out with pimples and in with wrinkles! I like seeing ladies who age gracefully and with pride!

Temporary Princess 26 May 2014 8:55 AM

I agree with all of the above, especially the one about skincare!

Beautybabe140194 26 May 2014 4:47 AM

I think keeping your hair looking in tip top shape helps

skitzkitty 26 May 2014 4:29 AM

You have to work so much harder at meeting society's expectations when you get older, no wonder young people think old people have so much more discipline!

Ssajwani 25 May 2014 1:22 PM

amazing tips!

Ellelily 25 May 2014 12:17 PM

I would love to feel more confident but it does get harder; I would love to be able to treat myself to more of the better products to look after my skin and hair. But i do my best to look as good as i can.

CherryBlossom 25 May 2014 8:09 AM

Great motivation to actually do something about it!

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